With what words should you roll up to. How to roll up to a girl you know

Many representatives of the stronger sex do not know how to drive up to a pretty girl in order to get to know her. Phrases and examples of good tackles on girls that should work. Sometimes you meet a girl so beautiful that you are speechless and don't know what to say.

You can drive up to a girl not only on the street, but also on social networks (VK, Facebook, Instagram). In most cases, funny, amusing or interesting approaches to girls work well.

Girls love to laugh and are willing to make acquaintances. A couple of good tackles to girls, from which you can choose the one that suits the situation.

1. Is it really hot in here or is it because of you?

2. I think someone called the police on you, because it is illegal to look so beautiful.

3. Your name is not Google? You have everything I was looking for.

4. Is your dad a terrorist? You look like a dangerous bomb.

5. Roses are red, violets are blue, I can't rhyme, but can I get to know you?

6. Are your parents aliens? There is absolutely no one like it on earth.

7. I seem to have lost my phone number. Can you give yours?

8. Your hand looks heavy, can I hold it?

9. Sorry, I just noticed that you noticed me and just wanted to warn you that I noticed you too.

10. Girl, where did you hide your wings? You are truly an angel.

11. If you were a book in the library, you would be the first to be stolen and never returned.

12. I'm not a genie, but I can fulfill your desire because you're definitely from a fairy tale.

13. My mom thinks I'm gay. Can you help me prove otherwise?

14. Was your father a boxer? After all, you are a real knockout.

15. Girl, what's on your face? Perhaps it is beauty and it does not come off.

16. I can bet that I can kiss you without touching you. Oops, I lost.

17. Girl, there is one thing about you that I want to change. Is that your last name.

18. My parents told me to follow my dreams. May I walk you home?

19. Could you help me? I got lost in your eyes.

20. Girl, don't you have an inhaler? The sight of you takes my breath away.

21. I made a bet with my friends that I would start a conversation with the most beautiful girl. Can I give you your share of ice cream or a cocktail?

22. Girl, the police should arrest you, you stole my heart.

23. See my friend over there? He wants to know if you think I'm cute?

24. Excuse me, did you say something? Not? So we can start.

25. Was your father a thief? He stole the stars and put them in your eyes.

26. You look at the girl's T-shirt and say, I knew that you were made in heaven!

27. I'm not a mathematician, but can you give me your phone number? I'll see what I can do about it.

According to studies, 4 out of 10 approaches to girls end up with an acquaintance and exchange of phones. The rest of the girls are usually busy and therefore refuse. Of the four girls who agreed with two, you will then have sex. This is statistics. What matters is not what you say, but how you do it. Girls look for confidence, smile and masculinity.

Hello, dear lover of women! And since you admit that I'm talking to you, it means that you certainly want to know how to hit on a girl.

I'll tell you a secret: in relations with women there are no rigid frameworks or strict regulations.

Very often improvisation or a banal “Hello!” will have a greater effect than any memorized phrase, because such a manifestation of you will be completely sincere, coming from within and reflecting your inner male core, if it exists of course.

But even if it is absent, it does not matter. Everything can be developed, everything can be learned.

Still, it's better to be prepared and armed with important recommendations, especially if you really decide to hit on a girl.

Classification

1. Directory acquaintance- you directly declare your intentions, clearly being the initiator of the acquaintance.
   It's when you come up so confident and like, “Hi. I saw you, you seemed interesting to me, and I decided to come up to talk. What is your name?"
   Also a working scheme, but you can use a different approach, which really requires a greater level of concentration, the presence of a lively mind and a certain amount of imagination.
2. Acquaintance in context- acquaintance arises as if by itself, as if you did not want to get acquainted initially.
   This is when, for example, you are walking down the street, and a girl meets you, but suddenly you notice a falling meteorite and speak out loud so that the girl hears: “This is YES-A-A!!! What do you think about it?

By going through, you can find out from an article on the psychology of online dating the reason why the second option of the above classification is sometimes preferable.

Which girl would you appreciate more: the one who drove up to you herself, or the one that you had to run after for six months (what a disgusting thing to run after a girl for six months)? That's where the thoughts come up in their heads.

He wants to be with me, which means I'm better than him, and I don't really need him. And in general, he is the same as all the other guys.

And in another case - what an interesting character, it would be necessary to get to know him better.

Therefore, your interest in relation to the girl can be veiled and shown in a dosed manner, for example, to show disinterest, then interest, then disinterest, then ...

If a girl decides to play the role of the snow queen, answer her with indifference. This does not mean running away, just be calm, without much emotion, without any compliments, and without using a big smile.

When you start dating, you don’t have to ask the girl’s name at all, let her be the first to ask your name.

Try to show your interest only when you clearly observe interest in yourself from the girl.

How to get a girl's attention

The first thing you have to do if you decide to hit on a girl is to get her attention.

Instead of just approaching a girl and starting an acquaintance, you can make her become the initiator of communication.

Example of non-standard behavior #1

You get on the subway and you start brushing off your shoes and kicking your feet. As a result, the girl looked at you.

You turn around and immediately say:

• A blizzard of snow has fallen! Did you see?
• No, what is true?

What happens when you get attention? The girl looks at you in the hope of finding out: “What is even going on?”, “What is he doing?”, “What is he planning to do next?”

And you immediately answer the question that she has not yet asked.

Example of non-standard behavior #2

One guy once saw a beautiful girl in a bar. She sent everyone off, one after the other. The guys did not even have time to turn to her.

This guy comes up to her and confidently sits next to her. She looks at him. He didn’t say a word to her, without even looking at her, loudly and brazenly declares to the bartender: “Bartender, bring me a beer!”

The girl is intrigued to see what he will do next. She waits for the guy to turn to her and talk, and instead of answering, she will immediately kick him off, like a dozen previous guys.

But the guy was on point.

He takes out a matchbox, slowly breaks the match and lays it out on the bar. Zero attention to the girl.

She sits dumbfounded by the impudence of the guy who sat on the chair next to her, although the bar is all empty.

He breaks the second match and slowly places it on the table. And so he begins to lay out a path with matches leading to a girl sitting next to him, who begins to carefully delve into this mysterious process.

Each of his movements is very demonstrative and cool.

Finally, on the 6th match, her patience bursts, and she asks the guy:

• What are you doing? Why all these matches?
• I'm testing you for intelligence (the guy answers without turning around)!
• Me?! And how did I pass the test?
• Not yet!
• And what is it?
• Haven't you figured it out yet?
• If you understand, then you passed the test.
• Do you always test women?
• When I want to understand whether it will be interesting for me to communicate with her.
• How confident.
• Yes, like that.

After that, he turned to the girl and winked at her. She was embarrassed and smiled. Communication has begun.

He turned out to be smarter than 10 previous guys, making it so that this girl herself began to communicate with him.

Openers (openers)

Opener (opener) - a way to drive up to a girl (open a girl), i.e. get into communication.

A suitable opener at the right time can decide the whole outcome of an acquaintance.

Types of openers

1. Service.
2. Depraved and cheerful opener.
3. Compliment.
4. Compliment with a hook.
5. Accusation.
6. Advice.
7. Directive (direct) opener.
8. Opinion.
9. Joke.
10. Situational opener.

1. Service

→ Approach the girl and ask:
“Tell me where am I? I moved from St. Petersburg a month ago, I'm afraid to get lost.”
“Girl, hello! Can you tell me where the men's clothing store is located near here?”
“Tell me, please, what floor is the cafe on?”

→ Ask the girl to guard the bag and go away for a while, and then come back and continue the conversation.

→ Ask the girl at the store to pick out clothes or food for you to prepare dinner.

→ Borrow the girl's phone and call your number.

If a girl renders you a service or gives you her things, it means that she is already investing in communication and letting you into her personal space, i.e. communication is already established.

Just remember that a girl should not rush anywhere, and she should have free time.

2. Depraved and funny opener

The depraved and cheerful opener is based on the vulgarity you said, which is veiled as a joke.

Thanks to this, the girl begins to think in a sexual way, but perceives the information received from you cheerfully and adequately.

It will be great if you arrange everything in such a way that it is a depraved girl, looks at you depravedly and obviously wants something from you.

Examples

→ Are you preoccupied, are you just crazy, do you have problems in your sex life? Why are you constantly thinking about sex next to me? Do you think everything is possible? I'm not like that!

→ You look so vulgar!

→ Are you silent - afraid that I will guess that you are aroused?

→ Did you go to the store to pick someone up? I knew it, but you're just vulgar.

→ You took my hand to hug me! I know, just give you free rein, you will hug me all over. Don't touch me with your dirty hands. Well, you just undress me with your eyes. Yes, you are a maniac!

→ No, we can't leave the crowd. I have a feeling that if we're alone, you might rape me.

→ How you look at me! What a vulgar look! Stop undressing me! Do you think I didn't notice?

→ Where are you looking? Why do you always have vulgar intentions! I'm afraid to be alone with you!

→ You have such perverted eyes. I can imagine what you have in mind! How can so much depravity fit in one person! And I wouldn't have thought!

→ I know something about you. You are now very excited, but you want to hide it.

→ I'll sit next to you... if you don't pester me, of course.

→ Oh you! No need to look at my body and think what you want to do with it!

→ Why don't we go to my place, draw the curtains, undress, get into bed, cover ourselves with a blanket and see what happens? Although no, I still think, do you know how to cook at all ?!

→ Is it really hot in here, or are you that hot?

→ Do you like handsome guys who can do something? Not what you're thinking right now! Where are you looking? Horny? It happens!

→ So, probably, she would have taken me now by force, if not for the people around. Being next to you, I start to be afraid of you!

→ You are the most depraved monster I have ever met.

→ How much can you think about sex! All clear with you. Don't make excuses, I know you all are like that! Okay, get to work. What did the director say?

This opener can be used in different situations. Was there an awkward pause in communication? Then charge and have fun, the demolition of the roof is guaranteed for the girl.

As a result, the young lady is embarrassed and thinks: "Maybe I'm really depraved?", Or laughs, realizing the absurdity of the accusations. Both of those are cool.

And yet, you should not flirt with this opener, because most often he will only scare away the girls.

3. Compliment

- This is the oldest of all existing openers.

Due to the fact that it is used by the majority, almost everywhere and most often, it has lost its potential, and instead of a proudly developing flag of effective entry into communication, it looks more like a tattered gray rag.

Despite this, there are compliments that can really boast of their effectiveness.

In this case, we are talking about unusual compliments - non-standard remarks that emphasize the girl's unique qualities or lack thereof.

The compliment should convey new information about her to the girl, as a result of which she will think: “Wow. I didn't know I was that interesting.” instead of her concluding, “There you go. This is the 937th time I hear the same thing.”

This refers to compliments that do not relate to physical attractiveness.

Such compliments give pleasure to girls and at the same time characterize you as an extraordinary person, automatically highlighting banal admirers from the crowd.

Dancing

• Hello, do you happen to dance? You move with such grace.
• You have a natural talent that cannot be destroyed.

hairpins

• How high are these heels? A lot of women are so funny and awkward in stilettos, but you're so good at walking in them. It's like a lost art. How did you learn?

Get off the dance floor

• Hello. I'm very sorry, but I have to ask you to leave the dance floor for one reason...
• For what?
• You expose other girls in gray because they look small and dull against your background. It's bad and I feel sorry for them. But if you want them to be jealous, let's show them how to have fun.

severity

It should be applied to very self-confident girls.

• Hello. You are so strict. Are you a director of some company? The thing is, you look confident, and you seem to know what you're doing. Perhaps people are even afraid to talk to you.

Compliment with intrigue

• Hello. You know, I noticed something in you that most guys do not like in women, but I really like it, I appreciate it in girls ...

4. Compliment with a hook

Women are no strangers to accepting compliments, as mentioned earlier.

Therefore, if you decide to hit on a girl, dilute the gray routine of another beauty with a compliment with a clue.

To do this, say the usual compliment, and then hit the girl, but only about those things that she can fix in herself, while not hurting her to the quick and not insulting her.

Speak confidently and in a cheerful manner.

Find in the girl what she is proud of, or what you like about her. Something that constantly attracts the attention of others or in which she considers herself a professional.

Give a girl a compliment and then point out something negative in her behavior, or find something to nag at and then beat it out in a positive way. At the same time, remember that sometimes some variations of this opener can have the opposite effect.

Examples

Appearance.
"You look good. How long did you paint?

The size.
“Very beautiful jacket. I saw this at a fashion show in Paris. It's obvious that you're very good at style. Wait, I don't think she's the right size for you? Or is it a visual trick?

You blink.
"Hey! I was wondering something about you… (pause, wait for her to ask, “What?”) Why do you blink so much?”

There is no taste.
"Great hat. Did you choose it yourself?"

Interesting…
"Hey. You have an interesting walk (complexion, hair, clothes, shape of eyes, lips, ears, neck, energy, aura)!” Keep in mind that, most likely, you will be asked, “What is interesting about it?”

Only.
"Great bag! Very pretty color and very eye catching. It just doesn't fit your shoes. But it is not very striking when viewed from afar ... "
"Great belt. It just doesn't fit well. You know you need to fix it. Let me fix it..."

She's yours?
“Your bag is cool, is it yours?”
“Cool phone, is it yours?”
“Which shoes are interesting, are they yours?”

Real?
"Nice tan. He is real?"
"Beautiful hair. Are they real?
“Nice hair… Is it real?”

Junk.
"Great boots. My grandmother has the same ones."
“What a cool jacket, it looks like a grandfather’s jacket from the front after the Second World War.”

Most of all I like it.
Note in the girl that which does not relate to her appearance and personality: things, clothes, etc.
“What I like most about you is…your handbag. So cool!”

They are different.
“What beautiful legs. One is thinner than the other."
"What beautiful blue eyes, one bluer than the other!"

How much energy do you spend on beauty?
“You are so slim… Are you on a diet?”
“Your legs are so long… How long does it take you to shave them?”

Although…
"Let's go to a cafe. Let’s eat together and talk… Although, maybe we don’t know each other much yet?”
“You are a very sweet and stylish girl, and I like you a lot. I would even invite you to meet ... Although, do you know how to cook?
“You are so beautiful and well-groomed, it’s not a shame to go out with you ... Although, do you know how to dance?

5. Accusation

This opener shows your courage and arrogance, and is designed to embarrass the girl, forcing her, justifying herself, to enter into communication.

You should pronounce this opener in a defiant, but in a joking manner, while you should clearly show who you are addressing.

Examples

Perverted look.
"Oh my God! What a perverted look! Why are you undressing people with your eyes?”

Suspicion.
Suspect a person of lustful intentions:

• Looking for something to chill.
• What to eat.
• Sweet tooth.
• Wants to steal something.
  For example: “What, are you looking for a snack or something to get drunk? It's hard in the morning, I understand!

Don't paw me.
It is best to apply at and bars. If the girl herself accidentally pushed you, use this opportunity.
“What are you pawing me, look how impudent. Aren't you ashamed to touch me in public? So right away! I didn't even recognize the name! Are you always so cheeky?"

Is it okay that I'm silent?
Coming close to the girl, stand for a minute or two with the air of a person who is in deep thought, and then dumbfound the unfortunate innocent question: “Is it okay that I am silent?”

Eye to eye.
In response to her look, immediately say: “Stop looking into my eyes. I'm a humble guy!" Then you can add: “Okay, I forgive you…”

Perversion of intent.
Pervert any behavior of a girl so that it is funny.
“You probably dress like that on purpose so that everyone thinks that you work as a school teacher.”
If a girl reads: “Are you probably pretending to read on purpose to appear more educated and to please young people?”
The girl eats: “You probably eat here on purpose so that everyone thinks how cool you are?”
The girl goes to the university: “You probably study at a vocational school, but do you go here so that everyone thinks that you are studying at a university?”
The girl buys something in the store: “You probably buy these things here on purpose so that everyone thinks that you can afford it?”
A girl buys a postcard: "Are you probably buying a postcard so that everyone will think that you have friends?"

Advice is a great way to hit on a girl, showing her your authority and proving that you are an educated person who is a professional in any field.

When you give advice, you put the girl in a very advantageous position for yourself as a student. The student respects the teacher, trusts and obeys him.

Advice can be given for any reason. For example: “Button up your jacket, you can’t wear it like that!” or “You have something on the back of your skirt, let me fix it.”

7. Directive (direct) opener

This opener is sometimes fraught with danger, because it clearly shows your intention, and it is easiest for a girl to beat him off.

But if there is no context, and the stranger really liked it, why not take a chance.

The main thing that you must demonstrate in this case is confidence and perseverance (within reasonable limits, of course).

Examples

You are interesting.
"Hey. I saw you, you seemed interesting to me, and I decided to come up to talk. What is your name?"

Passing by.
"Hey. I'm in a hurry so I can't talk for long. But it seemed to me that you are cool, and I have a desire with you. My name is ... Let's exchange phone numbers, I'll call you in the evening. (Note: when taking a phone number in a flash, girls are often not called.)

What is your name?
"Hello what is your name?" Then you should introduce yourself and use the next opener.

Let's go dancing.
Apply accordingly in the club.

8. Opinion

How to approach a girl? Ask her opinion about something. In this case, the correct appeal to the girl is very important.

Do not directly approach her in order to get an opinion. Act differently: do not turn to the girl with your whole body, turn only your head in her direction, as if initially you did not have a clear intention to speak to her.

If the girl reacted positively, turn your whole body towards the girl, otherwise just walk away.

Examples

Which club is better.
“I want a woman's opinion. Tell me, which club is better: this one or the one that is two streets further?

Psychic.
“My friend went to a psychic. He said that my friend would soon become rich. Do you believe in psychics?"

Relations.
“I need your female opinion. My friend has been dating a girl for three months and she calls him ten times a day. But I think it's an obsession. What do you think?"
You can touch on any topic: jealousy, betrayal, girls fight for a guy (guys fight for a girl is not suitable).
“My friend saw her boyfriend kissing another girl and freaked out, but she loves him. She is even ready to forgive him in order to be with him. But I want her well. What do you think, what should she do?
“My friend found out her boyfriend was sleeping with her roommate. Do you think she should quarrel with her neighbor or not?”

Choosing clothes.
"Hey. I need your opinion as a woman. Which item do you think suits me best?”

Similar but different.
“I want a woman's opinion. Who is cooler in your opinion: Jennifer Lopez or Britney Spears?

situational opinion.
"Hey. Look, I need a woman's opinion. Some girl through my friends asked me to. What should she write? I don't know her at all…”

Lie.
“I want a woman's opinion. Who do you think lies more: men or women?”

9. Joke

A good joke is the most powerful opener, but also the most difficult because the joke has to be actually funny.

Your goal in this case is to make the girl laugh. A cool guy is a rarity, which means you are valuable just because you are cool.

Examples

Escalator.
“Today I got a unique opportunity to ride cool with a breeze in a pleasant company. Do you want me to ride you with the breeze too? On the escalator?

The dress.
“This dress looks great on you. Well, actually, and I would look no worse in his place.

Bay, never mind! Here it is, yes!
Should be used when a girl answers a question:

• Guess what my zodiac sign is?
• Hmm... Cancer?
• Bay, what the hell? Here it is, yes!
• I guess?

10. Situational opener

Situational openers are the most flexible and natural, but they require you to be resourceful and observant.

The point is to notice something in your environment and comment on it.

The object of your comments should not be about the girl and getting to know her. Comment on the situation itself, people on the street, environment, objects, weather, etc.

Sunglasses.
If a girl is wearing sunglasses with mirrored lenses, then you can ask them to use them as mirrors (comb your hair, for example).

Telephone.
“Did your phone just ring?”

Observant.
"Hey. What are you looking at that is interesting? Beads? I worked as a bead consultant, let me help you choose.”

Weather.
“Girl, how do you manage to survive in this weather?”

In conclusion

As you can see, dear friend, in order to drive up to a girl, you can go in from the flank, but in general it is better to act according to circumstances.

Do not forget that there are no taboos. Sometimes you just have to say out loud, “Hi. What is your name?”, “Girl, hello. How are you?”, “Hi. I saw you, I decided to come up to talk. ”, after which contact will be established.

Have you ever wondered why some men manage to easily win the attention of a girl, while others fail? At the same time, the latter can be much more beautiful, more successful and more interesting. It is very important to impress a girl from the first minutes of communication. Let's talk more about how to do this.

Pickup rules: how to drive up to a girl

Your main task when seducing a beauty is to drive up to the girl so that she does not immediately send you off.

• The first and fundamental rule for a successful pickup truck is to be confident.
• The next step is to catch her eye. A lot can be read in the eyes, including whether the girl is ready to get acquainted now and whether she is interested in it at all at the moment. Insolence is, of course, good, especially in the pickup business, but since we are talking about success and not being rejected right away, it’s still not worth going ahead.
• You should not ask such annoying questions to everyone as "Does your mother need a son-in-law?", "Why is the beauty bored?" etc. By doing this, you will definitely push the girl away from you and are unlikely to start a conversation with her.

If the girl caught your eye and you see her interest, then secure the position. If the chosen one is walking down the street, try to walk side by side, keeping as close as possible, but not stepping into her comfort zone. If a girl, for example, is sitting in a park, then continue to furtively cast glances, but not directly at her, but a little sideways, with peripheral vision. That said, watch her. You can also adjust to her posture. Psychologists say that if a person adjusts to the posture and breathing of another person, then on a subconscious level he will make a favorable impression and inspire confidence.

Now it's time to strike up a conversation

• It is important to remember that the first impression of a person is formed within 15 seconds. So make sure that you are neatly dressed, combed, shoes are clean and you smell good. Don't forget to smile too.
• Do not start communication with a girl with banal template phrases: "Girl, can I meet you?" or "Girl, have we met before?". Most likely, this will immediately scare her away. Believe me, you are not the first person to approach her with such questions.
• Also try not to use "not" in your questions. For example, "Would you like to go to the theater with me?". The answer is likely to be no. And, again, it acts on the subconscious, a defensive reaction is triggered.
• Be original. If you accidentally heard her name, you can come up and say: "Marina, your smile blinded me more than today's bright sun." Don't be afraid to be silly: girls love with their ears. She will definitely smile at you again, maybe even embarrassed, not to mention that you will improve her mood for the whole day.

Following these tips, you will not even notice how you are already walking with the girl you like, chatting merrily, and at the end of the walk she will definitely leave you her phone.

Internet dating

If you are not yet brave enough to meet girls in real life, there is another way - to drive up to the girl you like on Vkontakte (VK) or other social networks.

• You can come up with an interesting non-banal comment on her photo, to which she will definitely want to respond.
• You can also, after analyzing her personal data and viewing her photos, ask her some interesting question in a personal.
• It will not be superfluous to study what unites you, and to incline communication to this topic. So you will have more chances to interest her and take the relationship to the next level!

To consolidate the result, also read our articles and. Good luck with seduction!

Acquaintance almost always begins with communication. When one person says something to another, a dialogue is born. If this is a conversation between an interesting man and an attractive woman, the matter may end in a wedding and many years of happy life.

Recently, ladies have a desire to get acquainted first. They want to do it, but they do not always know how, and sometimes they are shy. Therefore, we decided to tell in this article what phrases for dating a man are suitable for women.

Phrase structure

In principle, you can approach any handsome young man with the standard: “Hello (hello)! How are you? Let's get acquainted". Despite the fact that pick-up masters do not really welcome such a conversation starter, the phrase works. Of course, provided that the guy likes the girl who came up to him.

On the other hand, why start a dialogue with platitudes if you can say something more original.

There are many examples of successful, funny, funny phrases on the Internet that can be used both on the street and on the net. But ideally, if you are able to come up with something of your own to approach and get to know a young man.

So, what elements should your speech, albeit small, consist of?

1. Greetings. Educated people cannot do without this either in real life or in correspondence. But sometimes this moment is missed. Of course, our mentality is to blame. For example, Europeans complain that Russians are always gloomy and do not say hello to, say, shop assistants. Meanwhile, greetings have great power. They need to be spoken. Moreover, it is necessary to greet the person with whom you want a relationship.
2. Question. Why exactly him? Everything is explained quite simply. If you say something in the affirmative, the dialogue may not work. Imagine a girl coming up to a young man and saying: “I love the rain!” If a guy is imbued with sympathy for her, he will find something to answer just to continue talking with a nice lady. Now feel the difference: “Hi! Do you like rain?" Here it is already obvious - the words are addressed to the man. He will either have to answer or label himself as a surly ignoramus. That is, once again: the question is the engine of dialogue.
3. Compliment. Rolling up to a guy and voicing something cool and pleasant to him is an application for success. People love to be praised.
4. Positive. The phrase should be "warm", uplifting to the person with whom you want to start a conversation.

Actually, you don't need to think of anything else. If you put it all together, you can compose original and funny phrases for meeting guys every minute.

• it is extremely important how you speak. From a girl who wants to get to know each other correctly, a positive should come. Sincerity must be felt in the words;
• the ability to successfully build phrases to start a conversation is useful in that you do not need to memorize remarks from websites or social networks. You can improvise. So the phrase will seem more alive.

Chatting in Internet

How to start a dialogue on the network?

1. You can write: "Hi!" As we have already noted, this is not the best option. It is better to come up with something interesting and funny for a person. We'll get to the examples later.
2. If there is a desire to start with the original message, it is better to study the user profile in detail before that in order to roll up in detail. Let's just say, "Hi! What a wonderful dog next to you in the photo. I'd like to get to know her better." A guy can also show his sense of humor: “She is very busy with me. I propose to meet. I know everything about this dog, and I will tell everything. Here we already see some kind of sympathy.
3. Chatting is a separate conversation. Here you can flirt, voice bold thoughts, without fear of anything. Chats have always been the freest territory on the web. However, it has its own language, which is desirable to learn. "Priv" instead of "hello", "SPS" and so on.
4. You can use aphorisms and quotes for dating, if they are appropriate. The network, as you know, loves "catch phrases".

In general, you need to be creative in order to beautifully approach good young people. It is important that the phrases you come up with for online dating are not only smart or funny, but also interpreted by a potential interlocutor unambiguously. The Internet cannot convey living emotions to a person, so they are denoted by emoticons. But you can put “smiles” if a teenager wants to express some feelings. A serious man may not understand all these brackets and colons.

Where to learn to come up with phrases for dating

It is worth contacting pickups. These are people who almost "professionally" meet the opposite sex in a variety of ways. Now the female pickup is actively developing. It is not necessary to look for a girl who preys on men.

You can download, buy and read books on this topic. There are many authors. There is a sufficient amount of literature in the public domain. Moreover, each book has a section on what phrases or smart sayings and expressions to use in order to win the man of your dreams, introduce him to your parents, become the mother of his daughter or son after a while.

You can watch the video. There is no shortage of such materials either.

Perhaps after that you yourself will become a beginner pick-up artist, you will grow and develop in this direction.

Phrase Examples

You can make a huge list of replicas used in a cafe, on the street, when communicating on the phone or on Vkontakte, but you should start from the base.

1. "Hello! Let's get acquainted!"
2. "What are you doing tonight?"
3. "I'd love to have a cup of coffee with you."

These are the simplest phrases. But they unequivocally make it clear to the young man that the woman is interested in communication.

The next block of phrases that are needed if you want to start a dialogue with a man as naturally as possible:

1. "Help me please,…"
2. "Tell me where is..."
3. "Sorry, you don't know where (how, why, what for)..."

Let's add some creativity:

1. “Young man, you have such a great figure! Could you pose for me, you see, I am working on a statue of Apollo.
2. “Excuse me, can you tell me where to find a man like you? It just seems to me that you are very close to the ideal.
3. "Hello! I'm doing a sociological survey. Tell me: would you like to have a cup of coffee with a girl like me?

All this is pure improvisation.

Of course, it is not easy to come up with something without having initial data regarding a man.

You need to get away from this. For example, for a person in a suit and glasses coming out of the doors of some research institute, you need to come up with more intelligent jokes. And the simple kid next door will probably appreciate the handling of sexual innuendo.

Despite the fact that pick-up artists and pick-up artists have some good preparations in stock, even these masters of starting communication try to improvise in order to have the proper impact on the “object”.

Hello man, in this article I will tell you about how to drive up to a girl, unfamiliar or familiar, and in general, how, even the most beautiful girl anywhere:, in contact, and so on.

And most importantly, after you read this article, you will go to try it all, and I want to urge you to ensure that failures (Without which nowhere) do not stop you. I wrote about this in an article. Also, I have some great tutorial videos on this topic that you can watch right now. In these videos, I cover this topic in more detail. I don’t really like writing on the blog, I’m still a lazy person, it’s easier for me to speak on camera;). So, I'm better off not reading.

So, to business:

In general, there is no such thing as how to properly roll up to a girl - you can do it the way you want, for which you have enough imagination. The most important rule here is to communicate with the girl from the “Above” position, that is, you do not persuade, do not ask and do not apologize. For example - “Hello, I’m sorry that I distract you, but can I go with you” or “Hi, you look great, I liked you, let's talk for a couple of minutes.” Do you feel the difference? So the girls feel it too, believe my eight years of experience.

Remember a few important rules that we tell our students in seduction training:

Here are the basic rules for how to approach a girl on the street. Let me now tell you some phrases that you can say. For example, "Hi, you are a very unusual girl, you have very unusual eyes ...... especially the right one))))" or for example "The legs are unusual ... the left one is generally super." Or “By the way, you have a very kind face, a very positive and kind nose.”

The most important thing is to communicate simply, while communicating, try to evaluate Her, whether you like her or not, and do not try to think - “How would I like her to do this?”. When you meet her, ask her about her (Does she always walk so unusually, dresses so brightly. How can something fit in such a small bag? She has such a big bag, probably she is a household one))).), also tell something about her - “By the way, you dress so brightly, is it probably because you are a strong girl who wants to be in the spotlight? You have such a gait like an organ worker, you must be serious?”

In general, you need to say the following:

1. You say something about her.
2. You ask something about her.
3. Telling something about yourself

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“I always liked girls with such a walk, with such hair” or “You know, when I look at curly blondes like you, I always remember my first love” ...

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In contact with. And here's how you can drive up to a girl in VK. You write to her - "Hi. By the way, you are a very unusual girl, ”the phrase about unusualness in 80 percent of cases gives the opposite question from the girl -“ Than. You can add a phrase - "There is one very unusual trait in you that guys don't really like .... But I like her…” She will most likely start asking you about the devil. Girls are generally very curious creatures, they are like children.

After that, you continue the dialogue, but try to talk more about her in your messages. About how she looks in the photo, about what her outfit reminds you of and so on. If you ask her questions, then, also something like - “What would you do if you became a cool guy for one day? What guys do you like the most?

Although, personally, I’m only for live communication and live dating in public places, and even if you get to know each other in contact, your online communication should be kept to a minimum, you need to call as soon as possible, then call and invite her to a meeting. I try in general (although I rarely get acquainted on VK) literally after the third or fourth message, ask her for her number - “Listen, write me your number, I will call you and chat for a couple of minutes. I don't like writing."

In the club. Let me tell you a few words about how to hit up a girl in a club. In general, the usual street acquaintance in the club, which you can see in my videos in the "Video" section, is not very suitable. This is where the so-called “Three Circles Theory” comes into play. That is, you do not immediately roll up, but gradually. You come to the club, you see several beautiful girls, you approach them in turn and chat very briefly, literally exchanging a few words about nothing - “How is the mood, what is the name of the cocktail, that she has a cool shiny dress ...”, while you can even don't introduce yourself to her. He approached, chatted with one, then went to another.

It's even good that the previous ones will see you with the next ones (This is some kind of PR. You are in demand among women, they will think). This is how the first round went. Then, after a while, you go to the second round. You approach only those who were more active in contacting you, and those who liked you more. Here you already introduce yourself and chat a little longer. The goal is to interest yourself and tell something unusual about her - “you are a very unusual girl, because .... Blah blah blah".
About that, you can read, which will come to your e-mail right now.

Then you also go for a break and after a while you go up to one of them, who you liked more, who reacted better, to the one that fell for you more, and you already take her to chill out (On the sofas, away from the dance floor) and there you are already starting to touch her and excite her.
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